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The BDSM scene can be overwhelming for those who are just starting out. My advice is: when in doubt, wear black.

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Remember, comfort and style are important. Additionally, sneakers and the like should be avoided, as that usually looks too casual. Many first timers are eager to jump in with both feet, which is great. However, others might be more timid. What to expect of course varies from dungeon to dungeon and event to event. In order to err on the side of caution and to make a good first impression, here are a few handy tips to help you navigate BDSM play parties.

It is vital that this is respected.

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This brings me to my next point:. If you want to ask a question of another participant, approach them at a time when they are not busy. Also, keep in mind that some submissives are not allowed to speak without permission. When in doubt, be overly cautious and ask first before addressing anyone.

If you ask your question respectfully and thoughtfully, you will most likely get a respectful and thoughtful answer. It is prudent to ask people their preferred pronouns as well.

Call people by the names and pronouns by which they want to be referred. Much like a traffic light, it is important to watch for als. I have seen countless examples of careless behavior on behalf of people stumbling into the path of a swinging flogger, single tail, cane, etc. Another less obvious interaction that you should certainly avoid interrupting is aftercare.

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There is a lot of tender, vulnerable energy surrounding the aftermath of play, so it is definitely a good idea to allow a decent amount of space physically and otherwise to those who look like they are engaging in aftercare activities. A good rule of thumb for a first-timer is to bring a friend or two; go with people that you trust, and vice versa. Make sure to cover some personal ground rules with your party before you head out.

This will be especially helpful in case anyone in your group finds themselves feeling awkward or nervous. If you see something you like, great!

Negotiation and clarity are key here. The best way to approach a new situation like this is to first and foremost, mind your manners. Doing so will make a good impression, which can open the door for education and new experiences.

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Just breathe, relax, and have a good time. Know that there is so much to learn and explore in the world of BDSM. Though intimidating to most at first blush, it is a wellspring of opportunities to grow to have a better understanding not only of yourself, but of the world around you.

Deb Kavis is a writer, kinkster, and dreamer, who has been following her passion of putting pen to paper since childhood.

These days, she can be found titillating the crowd at local burlesque shows, strutting her stuff at The Rocky Horror Picture Show, and playing in BDSM clubs around town. Save my name,and website in this browser for the next time I comment.

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Follow Us! This brings me to my next point: Do ask questions when appropriate If you want to ask a question of another participant, approach them at a time when they are not busy. Do come with an open mind and a sense of transparency.

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