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Everything you need to know before throwing caution and your gag reflex to the wind. I enjoy giving my boyfriend head. And not to brag, but I think I'm pretty decent at it. Recently though, he has hinted that he wants me to try deep-throating. In the porn I've watched it looks pretty intense — and I'm worried about my gag reflex. Any tips for how to deep throat for a first-timer?
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How to deep throat: 5 important tips and techniques to keep things fun
Deep-throating is when you fit a whole penis down to its base in your mouth. The name comes from the idea that the penis goes so deep into your mouth that it inches down your throat and overcomes your gag reflex.

Whereas regular blowjobs involve putting a penis in your mouth and sucking on it, deep-throating involves inserting the entire penis at once. Food eventually conforms to the shape of your mouth and turns to mush, which can become a real choking hazard. Learning to comfortably open up your throat is fairly simple—just sing! Feel how the back of your throat opened up a bit?

You can apply that same technique to deep-throating. Allow the giver to set the rhythm, speed, and depth.

Consider how you place yourself because your position makes all of the difference in your deep-throating experience. Once you are more comfortable with deep-throating, you can try a position in which the receiving partner stands at the edge of the bed and the giving partner lays on their back, their head hanging off the side of the bed and neck resting comfortably on the edge. This position allows your trusted partner to control the depth, thrusts and motions as they receive oral sex.

If you are giving, Allen emphasizes that your hands should be free to provide visual cues to your partner so you can communicate your comfort and needs. Your mouth will otherwise be engaged. You should only do it for as long as it feels comfortable for you, and there is no shame in needing to pause.

You can also alter your tongue placement to let your throat rest. Using a water-based lube can change the game by helping increase sensitivity for the receiver and making things easier for the giver.
Curious about deep throating? read this first
There are various flavors of lube available, too. Experiment with different flavors to find one that you like, but be sure to check the ingredients to make sure they are body safe!

As mentioned before, taking breaks and switching back and forth between a regular blowjob and deep-throating gives you a chance to catch your breath. You can also stop using your mouth completely and instead use a hand to manually stimulate the penis while you take a break.

She has a bachelor's degree in literature as well as minors in psychology and sociology. All Topics. By Ghia Vitale.

Yes, sing! Ghia Vitale.
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