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  • I am 49
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  • Paraguayan
  • Who do I prefer:
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  • I'm lady
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  • My body type is skinny
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So my girlfriend and I have been getting into the BDSM community at our own pace and I just noticed that I dont really see any lesbians in the community. Is there a reason for that? I get a lot of good info from here but there are mostly straight couples. Are there lesbians here and any tips and tricks specific to lesbians in bdsm? Guide

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Do any other mistress experience this? I have such a hard time finding submissive lesbians who are kinky.

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I have done the tinder thing, the fetlife thing, the reddit thing, the munchies, the meet ups. Just find it hard to find other lesbians who are single and submissive. It seems like all of them are dating people already.

Hard to find lesbians who do bdsm and are subs

I feel like most of the lesbians that I know including myself are submissive and finding a domme is difficult. Maybe it's the circles we run in or types we are attracted to. Like every woman I know is submissive. Myself included.

Bdsm in lesbian relationships?

If you know any dommes who like women in East TN who are looking for subs let me know :. Jesus christ I feel like I have spent the majority of my past six gay years trying to find a good Domme.

sexual moms Amaris

I have several friends who are brilliant and beautiful and well-behaved lovely subs of various flavors who I've been on an active mission to match up with a good Domme for months. They're mostly interested in gentle-Dommes who are caretakey and sweet-but-firm and baby-I'm-just-being-rough-for-your-own-good.

If you're interested in someone over the Internet, I'll do some mediation and see if I can work something out for you. Mostly interested in gentle-Dommes who are caretakey and sweet and baby-I'm-just-being-rough-for-your-own-good.

horny bitch Amy

This is me. I didn't even know it was a thing because my girlfriend and I are such amateurs.

slutty whore Journee

So this is commonly-found? Wait, your flair.

You're obviously an expert in these matters. That is exactly the dynamic we have - I'm not here to hurt her, I'm here to push her because she needs to be pushed to really understand it all.

single bitch Khalani

Can I maybe PM you some time once I've collected my thoughts? I'm out on a limb doing all this by myself and it kind of works, but some community help would be most, most welcome. For the longest time I was looking for a sub, but my issue came me being a trans woman, not my being into women.

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Lesbian would gladly sub here. Fifteen years experience topping and I can't get a date.

passionate asian Lillie

I'm a dom and I find other dom girls are really hard to meet. Little sub here.

I would love to find a good domme. I've been out for 10 years and never found someone to connect with in this way. Everyone I date ends up on an equal level with me and I just want to be controlled and pushed around for once!!!

black cunt Kimber

I seriously get so frustrated. Any advice?

I'm not saying that you expect this but, I've seen many people that just expect someone to controlled and pushed around. For the people that learn how to do this safely, they want to negotiate it first. Also realize that even with an experienced partner, they can't do the game all the time.

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I can't find a lesbian Domme, they're all pros or in a relationship with a man. Surprised the other side is having issues too. It's location.

Lesbians in bdsm?

In you local community you can't find dommes, and in OPs location it's the opposite. I know I've had issues with finding a sub, it I think it has more to do with me being a trans lesbian than a lot of things. Most lesbian women don't seem interested at all, so I'm glad I met some great partners recently. Hard to find lesbians who do bdsm and are subs.

Posted by 4 years ago. Just frustrated and stressed and wanted to get this off my chest. Sort by: best. Continue this thread.

This is what I'm looking for omg. Sadly, there aren't many Dommes in my area My strategy has been: 1 Make OkCupid profile 2 Exclusively message quiet, serious women 3 Be adorable 4 Trade them your undying fun and enthusiasm and adorebleness and gratitude in exchange for their brilliant ability to structure and plan and make sense of everything.

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